Relation is the sacred thread which nourishes our psychology from the childhood to the old days of our life span. The only factor that make emotions flourish within our mind and let it take charge even of our mind is our relations with human beings . Human beings are basically parasite natured who seek their rights first and then think of others. But whatever its nature be , "supreme power of nature " has tweaked with this string of human-selfishness. This was made possible by making the emotions as veins of our mental health. So wherever we are engaged in a relation,there we avoid applying our reasoning. Even when we are in a temple we bow ourself towards the 'faith-idols' or sign of holiness. Many times we don't argue with our parents, we don't fight with our friends,teachers because an emotion is dominating us in respect of these persons..............and its all magic of emotions! which is always there in our relationship trees. We can infer from all these things that emotion has been playing most crucial role in our life. The maximum involvement of emotions in running our life smoothly due to which people from west started to develop a science to control emotions. Firstly, Charles Darwin had conceived the concept of 'emotions'. But, exactly the term "emotional quotient"(E.Q) was used by Wayne Payne in 1985. Thus, this contemporary concept started developing and today it helps in assessing an individual's emotional intelligence and in controlling emotions when needed. Many time this even aids us in relationship management. So this was the story of "emotions"
and now,
My Question is, can we play two or more than two relations with the same person?
-Can a father play role of mother too when his daughter lost her mother?
-Can a lover be a friend , when he/ she killed first?
-In a family if there are only female children , can they play brother's part too?
I inquired into it and found we always avoid such situation...because its not possible but few make it possible not absolutely rather partially. Practically, it becomes haphazard while dealing with such artificially made relations. So it becomes better for maximum people to surrender both relations if no status is settled (in second case), while in third case the role player looses herself and it becomes problematic for her to restore and even relations breaks. In first case children have to retain one relation, so child will always be in conformity with the father but never so attached and they search 'mother like person' outside their home.
Still these questions could have many answers and reasons behind it.But its always good to be clear in relations. Good for both or all.
"So never attempt to play two roles for the same person"
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